The power of introverts

The other side of perspective we ought to know about introverts, which they are more than what they seem.

The Pursuit of Happyness - Real Thing

Do you still remember the movie above starring Will Smith and his son? I'm sure you do. It's an amazing movie re-telling the real story of Chris Gardner from homeless dad to millionaire stockbroker. This is what he got to share:

You struggles to earn a living might be different from his or anyone else's, but Gardner says the answer to pulling yourself up is the same. Find something you're passionate about and go for it. "Maybe it's not time for us over 50 to be finding a job," but instead finding a career to create,Gardner says. "Maybe it's time to find our button and push it."

Here's his advice for people contemplating a midlife reinvention:

1. "Ain't nobody gotta dig it but you." Forget what other people think or say. Do something that makes you happy. "We're afraid that because everybody might not like it" we shouldn't do it, Gardner says. "But you gotta push that button."

2. Go with what you love, but stay grounded. "Probably the hardest question I get asked is 'How do I choose between passion and practicality?'" Gardner says. "I can't answer that. I had to do both. I was passionate about pursuing a career in financial services. But I was also passionate about feeding my child."

3. Start a business. Gardner added his voice to the chorus of experts who see a wave of small-business startups run by baby boomers pushed out of Corporate America due to ageism or the bad economy. That's OK, he says, because entrepreneurs over 50 are in a better position than younger workers to capitalize on their "reputations and Rolodexes." It's the start of a creator economy, he says, "with a whole lot of folks being entrepreneurial."

4. Have a plan. If you're starting a business, hope isn't enough. You need a plan that's clear, concise, compelling and consistent. On top of that, you need to be committed to what you're doing, he says.

5. Play to your strengths. "Your skills, talents and expertise are transferable" to other types of jobs and industries, he says.

6. Look out for yourself. "The cavalry is not coming....and things might be getting worse."

7. Remember what's important. For a long time, Americans worked to get things, Gardner says. It's time to focus on what really matters -- family and friends.

8. Any progress is progress. "Baby steps count, too, as long as you're moving forward," he says.

Old Dog New Tricks

Today I spent nearly 1 hour and 40 minutes trying to reach Dataran Prima, Petaling Jaya from Kajang. I have only one word for it........CRAZY. In normal day especially Sunday, it takes merely about 40-45 mins. I saw several accidents and even car broke down on the road. And I was late 45 mins. What a day.

Enough with the complaint. I was there to attend a software training which gotto do with my present works in Contracts Management. Our company have purchased a software that will help link and integrate several departments to better perform as a single identity i.e. developer.

The last similar training I had was about 12 years ago when I first came out to work for a contractor company. So, I can relate to the training that taught by the software developer. In a way it too brings back some fond memories of my younger day......enthusiasm and excitement.

Who says old dog don't need new tricks.